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    翻得好累，這篇感覺很普通。

    轉載隨意啦~

    這是一個美國華僑的心得：




    I'm ABC and came back to Taiwan (I've had my share of girlfriends
 in USA). In 5 years staying here (and dating several TWN girls from 25-36
yos, here is my take: Taiwanese women are narcissists, especially if she is
even slightly attractive. Most of them live off their parents. If they are
well-off, forget about scoring with them unless you are more well-off than
them, their parents will find every reason in the world NOT to be with you.



    $$$$ is king, you can be fat, butt-ugly but if you are rich or appear
rich, they will find every reason in the world to like you. And if you are
not, you can become 'friends' with them, you simply become her platonic
biitch, she only calls when she needs you and will never ever admit she
is just using you for material things but will always give you you subtle
hints of the Coach, LV, or expensive electronic gadget that she really really
wants for her B-day.


當無「性」的「朋友」，然而，她們在有麻煩事時，才會找你；換言之，你成了卑賤



    Worse, forgetting to bring her purse when inviting her & her friends
to meet you. And if she brings it, puts the onus on you to pay for it
by sitting there silently, not moving, as if waiting for the 'traditional-male
' to pick up the tab.



   And if she is poor, she is even more materialistic. I remember our company
 hired a TWN girl (27) never held a steady job, complain to us how little she
 makes and how her mom has no job and how she has to support her mom... then I
 found out her 1st paycheck, she went out and bought a IPhone4.. Saying how it
 was always her dream. All I can say was "wow" thinking how full of shhit
 she was.

    有錢的女孩還好，沒錢女孩更是「崇拜物質」到某種可怕的境界。我曾經在某家
公司服務，這家公司請了一個女生（27歲）。這女生從未有過穩定的工作，總是

她說：「擁有一台「愛瘋4」是我的夢想。」她真是有夠爛的啦，我大開眼界，只有這

樣才能形容她了！

    And I'm talking about girls that aren't even that attractive. Maybe a 7/8
 out of 10. Yes I'm being shallow by putting them on a scale like that, but
if I'm one feet deep, these girls' can be measured in micrometers.



   The younger ones that are even semi-attractive, are even more materialistic
 and pretentious. Most pretend they are not materialistic. And the few that
are not after $$$, are after Beiber looks no matter how gay-looking or
irresponsible these guys are.

   來講講那些比較年輕的台灣女孩子吧！她們的確有點吸引力，但又更「虛榮做作」


   Most don't have a job and those that do, spend as much money on their
looks as the girls. There are no Rambos, athletic real man here (ok maybe
5% of population, sorry to these real guys).

  這些娘炮沒有工作，又喜歡像娘們打扮自己，花掉大把銀子。我在這兒看不到像
藍寶的人，強又imba（好啦，搞不好有5%的人口還滿強壯的，在此向這些人道歉。）


  The guys these girls hang out with are perfect mirror of themselves,
devoid of any personality and has the sophistication of a Lego block. Most
of the skinny, wannabes gay looking guys (they actually think they are
model-quality!!) hang around disco clubs, malls like spoiled rich American
teenagers and spend all their money on the latest fashion craze.



   The guys are so skinny and feeble (I'm sure they can double their size
if they went to gym and worked out) that if a typhoon come suddenly, they
all be blow to the ocean. The only thing that makes their wheel turn are
MSN, SKYPE, Facebook, self-portraits of themselves plastered all over each
other's home pages.

   娘炮看起來又瘦又沒什麼力氣（他們要是肯健身，身體會是目前身體的兩倍大！）
，颱風一來，就可以把他們吹到海裡去。他們唯一有動力的時候，就是開MSN聊天、
開Skype哈拉、看臉書、搞自拍照、或是把自拍照貼在另一個娘炮的網頁上。

   God, they make Bieber look macho. No, I'm not the jealous type,
I'm just telling it as it is. I've also been to China/Vietnam/Thailand and
there is a world of difference in the girls' attitudes when I meet them.

   媽呀，連「賈斯汀‧比伯」都比他們MAN！我絕對不是嫉妒她們，真的。
。接下來呢，再來談談我在國外遇到的女生吧。我曾經到中國、越南、和泰國遊玩，
那裡的女人就有於台灣女生，差異之大之多，令人咋舌。

   I remember meeting girls that are 9 on a scale of 10, with no attitudes,
no BS, no mark-ups that will put the TWN girls to shame.

   那裡的女孩子，美人指數有9分！(滿分十分)，脂粉不施，溫柔嬌媚，不戴有色眼
鏡看人（譯註：BS: Bad Spectacles. You say it to someone who has crappy
glasses.），台灣的女孩子看到只會自相形穢。

   The girls I've dated, I eventually dumped them for several reasons.
Most girls if they waited until 33 yo, they become DESPERATE, what they
will never give the time of day few years ago all of a sudden become a
candidate for that future husband who will have a baby with her and
enslaved to them the rest of their lives.


結婚的候選人，可憐這些男生，除了要養小孩，還要像個奴隸一樣，照顧她們下半輩子。


   They are too old for most guys looking for younger girls and the
nice guys they dumped years ago have married, so they are looking
for ANYONE that makes more than the typical TWN guys and that is less
than 15 years older than them.



   And if the girls are 25-30 yo., you are an ATM to them. What the make
a month they can't save enough for the credit cards they maxed out last year,
 let alone thinking about next week. They are always complaining about not
having enough money, I would tell them in my previous relationships, my
girlfriends never 'ask' or expect me to support their lifestyle, they ALWAYS
lived a lifestyle that they can afford. It isn't about buying her expensive
girls or being cheap, it is about having a solidrelationship
based on trust, caring and understanding and respecting each other.


說：「我之前所交往過的美國女孩子，從來沒有要我養過她們。她們有自己的生活方式

，她們可以自己承擔這樣的生活方式；東西的價格從來不是談戀愛的重點，穩定而長久
的關係、互信、互相關心、互相尊重，這些才是重點。」

    Those words are like PHD dissertation to a kindergarten kid.
Yes they will eventually learn, but these types of girls in TWN are the NORM
not exception. A TWN man once told me, TWN young generation is fvcked.
They try to copycat the worst (superficial side) of USA and Japan but they
that chase them pay for it.




    Granted, there are exceptions, but you must look like Bratt Pitt or
Bieber, then you can sex with 1,000 of them without even breaking a sweat.
 yet the nicest guy can't even hold-hands with them because they are that
stuck up.



   In fact, that is what one of my friend has told me. he said it is
so easy to have sex with 18-20 yos in Taipei, Kaohsiung or Taichung, all
 you have to do is dress cool and have the 'right-look' - as they are
infatuated with blue-eyed, blond hair, Bratt-Pitts, all their cold-BS,
pretentious shitt drops as fast as their skirts.



   Then these same girls will come crying to you (I know some of them
and have even warned them what these guys are after, but these girls
believe in Cinderella stories and think they are the only Cinderella in
the world). They will cry, sob about how these guys cheated on them, how
they trusted them blah blah...and never ever trust them again... I just
laugh inside know if the same guy calls her again next week or another guy,
they fall for it again.)



    In fact that was what happened to this girl... even American girls
aren't that dumb and fall for their lies (Literally what an American guy
told me). No wonder lots of hardworking TWN guys go to Vietnam and Pinoy
to look for wives because from WHAT I SAW from my own company, what they
bring back is a fresh, young girl, MUCH better looking than the TWN girls
that turn them down, hard-working, willing to sacrifice with the husband.

  一個美國人跟我說：「美國的女孩子就不會像這群台灣笨女孩子一樣，陷入這種
白癡情況。」難怪台灣的好男人，都跑去越南和菲律賓找女人結婚。我在公司裡面，
看到這些外籍新娘，美貌又年輕，比那些拒絕他們（台灣好男人）的台灣女生美上
萬倍、勤奮萬倍、還願意為丈夫奉獻生命。

    Of course TWN looks down at them because now, there are less guys
to be their puppy dogs and because some of them are prettier than them
and they can't for the life of them understand how this girl would marry
them on a *normal income* that average









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